Kali Muscle Exposed: The Other Side
There are so many battles being fought in our society for
righteousness. It is extremely saddening when you look into the core of these battles
only to find hate and fear. Yesterday,
the bodybuilding community went into an internet frenzy regarding actor,
bodybuilder, author and entrepreneur Kali Muscle for being “exposed” for Gay for Pay. Gay for pay turned into Kali being actually
gay according to what I saw. I began to read messages, blog posts and watch the
videos that made statements such as people calling him a “butt pirate” or saying”Kali
is gay. He is a disgrace to the bodybuilding world.” Oh and let’s not forget
enormous amount of “F” bombs that were stamped all across the internet.
Homophobic….. Is this really how the bodybuilding community wants to be seen?
Kali is a friend and colleague of mine. We have worked
together professionally and he has changed my life partner/wife, Bea’s and my life
personally. I met him and his lovely
wife singer and entrepreneur Dvyne a little over 2 years ago. Bea and I had
been struggling with our weight and health issues all of our lives. Kali began talking to us about the importance
of being healthy. I have lived with asthma, diabetes, hypertension and other
illnesses the majority of my life. When Kali looked into my eyes one day and
said “ I see your eyes are yellow. We need to get you healthy.” Bea and I made
the choice and said “yes.” We did not
have a lot of money. He allowed us to pay what we could afford. What we
received in return was priceless. Not only did he teach us a new way of life,
he became who he needed to be for us to get it. Sometimes, it was not the
nicest, I knew that he wanted us to LIVE. No matter how busy his schedule
became, he always made time for us. He
did not sell out on us. Bea is a masculine identified lesbian and Kali was a
true ally to her…to us! He never ..EVER made us feel anything less than
human. Bea and I lost 60lbs a piece from
his teachings. I stopped taking 90% of
my meds. He is a lifesaver.
Many see Kali now and think he is a mean, arrogant and obnoxious dude.
The Kali that I know is funny, kind, giving
and loving. The true meaning of GAY! To know him is to know is journey.
I am so glad that he gets to tell his story in his soon to be released
autobiography “X-Con to Icon.” He is really passionate about getting his story
to the young people specifically. His message is “Be Conscious of your choices”
with everything in life. I get that from him. His fans get that from him. When
this book comes out the world will get it.
I believe that the bodybuilding community should perhaps
take notes and begin to worry about making a significant impact on others; speaking life into people instead of hate.
To my friend Kali , Bea and I thank you for the bottom of
our hearts for giving us life. We are so honored to have the sincere privilege
of seeing your other side. Now it is time to let the whole world see all of you…well…I’m
sure they want to see more. #nopunintended #nohetero
xoxoxo
*Adult Language*
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